Monday, March 30, 2015

3/28/15 EDUCATION IS THE KEY: EMPHASIS ON OPPORTUNITIES FOR WOMEN


Flash Back

“Papa, Papa, but I want to go to school!” the 8 years old girl cried out to her father, a Chinese shoes maker and a leather merchant.  Although her father was fairly well off, but it was in early 1900’s, and Chinese families did not usually send daughters to school at the time.  That was the cry of my Mother when she was a little girl, a cry that persisted until her Papa could not stand it any more.  He finally said, “That’s fine daughter, you can go to school but you have to take along your own desk and chair to school on the first day”.   That was the story my Mother told my siblings and me when we were still small.  The story imprinted in our minds till these days about the importance of education (See my blog post March 2014 http://www.bee-attatitude.blogspot.com/2014/03/my-tributes-for-international-womens-day.html)


The cries of daughters are still going on all over the world today in underdeveloped countries.  The cries might not be to their parents, but to their oppressors such as the story of Malala Yousafsai and her friends.   Once again, as Women History Month is winding down, I would like to tell a few more stories.  I would like to tell about steps that some organizations and young people that I know have made in making education assessable to young girls and underserved people.

Education as the Key to Socio-Economic Mobility

My Mother and my own life experiences already convinced me that education is a powerful key that can break the cycle of poverty. I am further convinced reading Brooking Institute’s research report of Hamilton Project by Michael Greenstone, Adam Looney, Jeremy Panasonic, and Musin Yu: Thirteen Economic Facts About Social Mobility and the Role of Education.   http://www.brookings.edu/research/reports/2013/06/13-facts-higher-education The report states: “While social mobility and economic opportunity are important aspects of the American ethos, the data suggest they are more myth than reality. In fact, a child’s family income plays a dominant role in determining his or her future income, and those who start out poor are likely to remain poor.”  The report also shows evidence that around the world; income inequality is associated with lower social mobility.  The report concludes that although children in both high and low income family group were born with similar cognitive abilities in their first few years of childhood.  But despite similar starting points, by age four, children in the highest income scored better in tests.  Research suggests that these differences arise largely due to factors related to a child’s home environment and family’s socioeconomic status.  The odds against low-income families also are higher because of the lack of resources necessary for investment in their children’s education.  Chapter 3 of the report states emphatically that: “Education Can Play a Pivotal Role in Upward Mobility”.

By now you probably agree with me about the importance of education that can improve the social status of low-income children all over the world.  But there are so many places all over the world that women and girls were prevented from having the education that they need in order to improve themselves and their community.

Women History Month

Before going to developing world, let’s start here in the US since we are still in March, which is Women History Month.  It has been a long journey for women here in the US as well.  Do you know that although Harvard University was established in the US since 1636, it was 200 years later that women first attended there, and only in 1980’s that there were equal numbers of women as men that attended colleges.  I like the statement of one of the pioneer women, Emma Willard-“But reason and religion teach that we too are primary existences…the companions, not the satellites of men, …Education should seek to bring its subject to the perfection of their moral, intellectual, and physical nature…in order that they may be the means of the greatest possible happiness of which they are capable, both as to what they enjoy and what they communicates.”  You can learn more about the long journey of American women from Women History Museum https://www.nwhm.org/html/exhibits/education/introduction.html

Experience in Other Countries
After I was able to achieve some of my childhood dreams that I shared in my previous blog, I received scholarship to go to the US as an exchange student.  This provided me with opportunities to learn not only about the US but also about other cultures during our ending bus trip through the eastern part of the United States.  All the exchange students under American Field Service (AFS) met together after spending one year in high schools that spread throughout the country.  The trip culminated with a “Mid-Way” meeting at the White House Lawn, and the students had an opportunity of a lifetime to meet with President Johnson.  We were ambassadors for our countries, and princes and princesses of some sort.  The experience built leadership ability and sense of worth and mission for the future for community and mankind.
After the one-year stint as Foreign Exchange Student, or should I say Princess-like-Ambassador, I was back to the grind as an ordinary student trying to pass national high school exam.  Students all over the country in Thailand vied for one of the 50th top spots because it meant a better chance to get into top universities.  It also meant they might be able to win some scholarship for college education abroad.  It was hard work but I had very dedicated teachers which made it possible for many of my class mates to receive scholarship to study in the US, Britain, France, the Netherlands, and so on.  For me it was scholarship to study in Australia.

Girls were still the minority in this group of students that received the scholarship from Australian government during my time.  There were only 6 female students among the twenty or so scholarship recipients, who were mostly engineering students.  The majority of the girls in the group was very smart and was all from economic and socially prominent families in Thailand.  I was the only one with a humble background.  My story of how I got this scholarship is also a story of miracle, but I will tell you about that at another time.

Again in the University of Sydney that I was in, out of the whole class of about one hundred and fifty Accounting and Economic students, there were only five females, and three out of the five were from Thailand and Malaysia.  It also happened that the one from Malaysia had a father who was a prominent Chinese businessman in Thailand as well!

Women seemed to be the minority when represented in global education arena.  I was the only female candidate in a group of postgraduate students of about 15 when I received a scholarship from the Netherlands, and went to study at the Institute of Social Studies in The Hague.  I still remember during a field visit to Yugoslavia, we had an opportunity to visit one of the educational institutions.  It was coincidentally International Women’s Day.  Since I was the only female participant, one of the leaders of the institution told me that there was a French saying about women: “…women are like flowers that should be admired for beauty as long as they stay quiet.”  You can imagine how I felt when I heard that; I tried hard not to respond harshly but just said that I respectfully disagree with this saying.  I was wise not to get into argument then since Yugoslavia was a communist country at the time, and I wanted to come back to Thailand alive.

Organizations Supporting Women’s Education
Things seem to get better about women participation in education, but there are much more that need to be done.  It was not too long ago that Malala Yousafzai and friends in Pakistan were terrorized by the Taliban for speaking out against the terrorists in support of opportunities for girls to have education.  Most of us know that Malala who was almost killed by the Taliban was the recipient of 2014 Nobel Peace Prize.  Before then, in 2013, the two friends of Malala,  Shazia Ramzan and Kanat Riaz, who were also injured during the assassination attempt against Malala, received scholarships from Atlantic College in Wales.  Their story was published on BBC News http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-23220232
I like this story of how an international organization responded to these girls whose lives were in danger like Malala, just because they wanted education for themselves. This particular news story also brought back memories of my own son who received Prince of Wales scholarship to study there in the early 90’s.

Atlantic College's estate near Llantwit Major in Wales includes the 12th Century St Donat's castle and was once the former home of American newspaper magnate William Randolph Hearst.  Willem-Alexander, the new king of the Netherlands, was once a student there as well.  That was an interesting school all right!

These are the pictures of the 12th Century castle and the coastal cliff waterfront that my son sent to me during his study there.




According to John Walmsley, the school principal  - “the mission of the school since its founding in 1962 by Kurt Hahn - is to make education a force to unite people, nations and cultures for peace and a sustainable future,"  
"We have students from over 90 nationalities, with 55% of our students supported by scholarships.”

The school seemed to me to be very vigorous in all areas of studies.  There are opportunities for adventure such as sea rescue operation for boats that were in danger in the area.  Students can chose their areas of interest to do research papers.  I read some of these research papers and was amazed at the depth of knowledge these supposedly high school students had.  No wonder their International Baccalaureate diplomas were accepted as one year of college credits at universities here in the US.  I am happy that they extended the scholarship to young girls that value education like Shazia and Kainat.  There are more organizations that support the efforts to better education opportunities for women and girls like the next story.

Story of An Emerging Young Female Leader

There are increasing numbers of female young adults who seek to make a difference in the world.  I recently got to know an individual who also had a high calling.  She is a niece of my musician friend and teacher, David Cowan.   Her name is Simone Shanese.

Simone is a recent college graduate originally from Cleveland, Ohio.  She said on her fundraiser page that
“I always felt that whatever I do in life needed to be bigger than myself and I’ve finally found the answer. Traveling abroad to help improve the education of women and children worldwide is my lifelong dream…”



Simone was able to go to Morocco on a one-month mission in November last year through an organization called “Cross-Cultural Solutions”.  It is a non-profit that addresses global issues by providing meaningful volunteer services to communities abroad and contributing responsibly to local economies. Her volunteer work was in Rabat, Morocco. The place was chosen specifically so Simone could better understand the socio-cultural issues that were prevalent there.  It was a place with a great number of homeless children in the city and the inequalities between men and women.  She volunteered alongside professional caregivers by providing educational services to children in a number of settings. By teaching English, helping to improve their access to better opportunities, while improving their confidence.

Simone’s drive to succeed continued after the volunteer work overseas.  Now she was just appointed an account executive in a top company in the US.  I am very proud of her relentless journey toward excellence.

Ending Note

It is getting late, I can go on and on about education, women and young people, but I need to stop here or this will not get published before the end of March.  Before I leave the post, I want to say that I am very proud of the first lady, Michelle Obama, who just recently completed a trip to Japan and Cambodia as part of her worldwide push for better education opportunities for girls.  It is good to have the month of March to celebrate and emphasize about the status of women, but we still have a long way to go.  We should not cease to try to improve opportunities for education for girls near and far, so that they have dignity and a chance to succeed as boys.  The improved status of women will benefit the quality of life, not only for themselves but also for their families, which consist of both girls and boys.  This in turn improves the qualities of life of the society as a whole.

Thursday, March 5, 2015

3/5/15 Following Your Dreams Speech

, It has been many months since the last time I posted on this blog.  I had some stories to tell but time just flew by through the New Year, Valentine's Day, and Lunar New Year, and I did not get a chance to put them on paper.  Last week, I promised my friends at Toastmaster that I would present an inspirational speech, so I had no choice but to write it on paper on Tuesday night, and finally delivered it last Wednesday.  I hope that as I share the speech "Following Your Dreams" again on this blog, it inspires you to follow YOUR dreams!

FOLLOWING YOUR DREAMS-An Inspirational Speech

Have you ever had a dream or goal that you want to achieve in life?  A dream like that of Susan Boyle, Britain Got Talents contestant back in 2009?  Dream to be a great singer, or to be successful in your career, and become a star in your field?  Well, with several chapters in my life, I had a few dreams or goals that I finally achieved.  From my life experience in turning dreams to reality, I can share some with you today, and hope that it inspires you as you are following your dreams.

When I was in high school, I had a dream to be one of the top 50 students of Thailand, and a dream to win scholarship to study aboard.  I achieved the two dreams that were steppingstones to a stable career in higher education.  After I finished college in Australia on full scholarship, I went back to Thailand to serve as a lecturer in a top Thai University.  Then I dreamed to be promoted to an Assistant Professor, Associate Professor, and possibly Professor.  Despite lack of formal postgraduate degrees, I was able to achieve the academic dream of becoming Associate Professor before emigrating here to the U.S.  When I came to the U.S. I had to start a different career all together, and worked my way up to where I am now. From these experiences and from reading about a few success stories, I would like to share with you some factors that may help you to reach your dreams:

1.    Do simple things right:  You may have heard the saying, “He who is faithful in a very little thing is faithful also in much”.  Whatever job you may be entrusted with, do it with the best of your ability.  Even when the job may seem unimportant.  If you can do easy things right, your boss will recognize it, and deem you trustworthy for more complex assignments.

When I first learned Thai classical music, I was entrusted with playing a small cymbal.  I did it well my instructor promoted me to play bigger instrument, and finally I had a chance to play in front of the queen of Thailand, and played at radio station just next to the King’s palace.  You can learn a few things from even the simplest things.  For example, if your job is to distribute mails in your organization, you can learn about the organization structure and the relationship among different functions in your organization.  No job is too small, you can always learn something, and develop certain skills such as organization or communication skills.

2.    Set goals, both realistic and unrealistic: Successful people are relentless goal-setters. They break down larger milestones into smaller, more achievable tasks.  Just like when I want to tidy up my house but I don’t have much time to clean the whole house at one time.  I can break down into different areas and just focus on finishing one certain area at a time.  I would feel accomplished and have better hope in finishing the whole project.

High tech leaders such as Bill Gate or Steve Job envisioned things that seem unrealistic and out of this world at the time.  Those impossible dreams are now realities that we often took for granted.


High tech leaders such as Bill Gate or Steve Job envisioned things that seem unrealistic and out of this world at the time.  Those impossible dreams are now realities that we often took for granted.


3. Work hard: You may think that successful people were just lucky or were born in rich families, but the fact is the majority of the successful people work very hard to get where they wanted to be.  People like Bill Gate, Warren Buffet, Mark Zuckerberg, and etc were all very hard working people.

4. Get others to work with you and never underestimate others: See value in the work of others, and help others when they seek your help especially in modern organization, teamwork is essential to accomplish big things.  You may also look for mentor, someone who knows about more about the work that you just started; some one who is willing to train you or help you develop skills as you are building your career.

5.Take risk and willing to fail: If you are afraid to do new things or face changes, you will never reach your dream.  In the world full of changes, your ability to manage changes is one of the qualities that employers seek from their top employees.  When you fail, don’t make excuse but learn from the mistake, and move on.

6. Never give up.  As Winston Churchill who led Great Britain through World War II said to young soldier: “Never Give Up”!  Even though he was in his seventies, he was able to overcome all the stress and strains of war and helped lead the Allied forces to victory.
In the face of adversity, always think on the bright side, have sense of humor even when you encounter toxic people at work. Stay the course to reach the goal.

Fellow toastmaster, when you have dreams; be passionate in following them like in the song:

Climb every mountain, search every stream, follow every rainbow, till you find your dream…Remember to 1) Do the simple things right. 2) Have goals both realistic and unrealistic. 3) Work hard, 4) Get others to work with you 5) Take risk, and 6) Never Give Up and stay positive.  You will be able to reach the end of the rainbow and find your dream there!